



But he knows to become the leader he's here to be, there's more in him to be refined...

"The program was transformational, but it wasn't easy. It brought me face to face with my shadows, my edges, my truth. But it was real. It taught me leadership isn't about doing more, it's about being more. Firekeeper changed the way I led. I showed up more open, more heart-centered, whether I'm facilitating, in my relationships, or just in the world. I'm leading from a place of authenticity and not ego. Firekeeper isn't a program you just do. It's an initiation."
You’re ready to give your gift as a facilitator, mentor, guide, or leader of men.
You desire to lead your own men's circle, trainings, retreats or programs.
You want to learn the skills, tools, and techniques for creating powerful, healing, and transformational experiences.
And you also want to learn the art and energetics of authentic, trustable, embodied masculine leadership.
You're a leader, coach, or facilitator and you want to refine your craft, expand your capacity, and clear your channel to become a living transmission of your work.
You've been holding back, playing small, and resisting your calling for too long and it's time to be the man you're here to be.
You've been looking for an immersive, experiential, hands-on training program that actually prepares you for leadership in the real world.
You want more than just training and teaching. You're seeking lasting transformation and an initiation into leadership and manhood.

PRACTICE
CALLS
These calls are your space to facilitate in real time while being sharpened and supported by the leaders and other men in the group. You’ll receive live feedback to help you refine your presence and deepen your skill as a facilitator.

TRAINING
CALLS
These are the core training calls led by the Thirteen Pines team. You’ll be guided through the foundations of transformational men’s work and trained in everything you need to become a confident, capable facilitator.

ASSISTING
Few trainings offer this level of hands-on experience. By assisting at our two retreats, you’ll step into leadership alongside the Thirteen Pines team – witnessing, supporting, and learning what it truly takes to hold powerful transformational space for men.

FIRETEAM MEETINGS
As part of your training, you’ll be placed in a Fireteam – a small group of brothers led by a graduate of the Firekeeper program. This is where the work gets personal. It’s a space to be real, meet your edge, and grow with the support and accountability of your brothers.
The core of your training will be delivered via 16 two-hour live training calls. You'll learn how to create and guide practices, hold powerful spaces, build sacred containers, organize retreats and workshops, and more.
Your Firekeeper journey is grounded in two four-day retreats where you'll deepen your practice, meet your edges, step into the fire of initiation, and embody the leader you are here to be.
You'll have a core group of men for support, accountability, and reflection throughout the training.
You'll be provided with an in-depth facilitation manual to support your journey. This will provide you with core practices, frameworks, and principles you can adapt and apply wherever your path takes you.
You'll have free access to our online community, which has a library of workshops and practices. We also run a bi-weekly online Men's Circle if you want more opportunities to engage with us, or see how we lead these spaces.
You'll have opportunities to observe select practice and retreat planning sessions for a behind the scenes experience of how we do things at Thirteen Pines.
Firekeepers have the opportunity to assist with the in-person retreats. You'll get first-hand experience in creating sacred spaces and insight into the running of a large-scale men's work event.
Our nine-week online men's program, Foundations, is included in your tuition. You'll also have opportunities to assist in mentoring other participants in the program. Foundations is optional.
You'll receive guidance and feedback to create your unique offering for men so you can start applying what you learn and making an impact immediately.
Want to work directly with a Thirteen Pines leader? Upgrade for 1:1 mentorship with Allan, Nic, or Chris throughout your Firekeeper journey.

"I joined Firekeeper as I felt a deep yearning to help and heal the masculine wound both in myself and other men. The program called me forward and challenged me and shifted deeply in an incredibly positive way, my relationship with men. It prepared me, and provide me with framework to facilitate and hold sacred space for the masculine to grow and heal. Through the program I got to know truly who I was, what are my values, and how I can manifest positive change in my life and those around me. Without a doubt the most transformational program I have encountered."
In Firekeeper, you won't learn the same cookie cutter scripts and techniques common in other trainings.
We want to give you a powerful personal experience of transformation and the tangible skills and understandings that would allow you to make art out of your unique gifts in the world of embodied men’s work.
You'll develop the confidence in your own authentic transmission to walk into any room of men and serve them powerfully.
Firekeeper is more than a facilitator training program, it's an initiation into embodied masculine leadership.

The Art and Science of Masculine Leadership
You'll learn the frameworks, systems, and principles of masculine leadership as well as the energetics of leading from the depth of who you are.
The Core Tenants of Men's Work
Understand the purpose and principles of men's work – what it is, why it matters, and how to facilitate transformational spaces for men.
Creating and Holding a Strong Container
Whether it's a men's circle, online workshop, or in-person retreat, you'll learn proven frameworks for holding space and creating a powerful container.
Fundamentals of Transformational Facilitation
Learn the core principles and practices of transformational facilitation. Develop the skills and awareness needed to guide people on a journey.
Essential Frameworks, Modalities, and Practices
Learn to confidently and safely facilitate transformational practices such as shadow work, inner-child work, breath work, archetype work, and embodiment work.
Structuring and Leading Practices for Others
You'll also receive training in how to craft and guide practices for others, as well as real-life experience in leading practices.
Crafting and Offering Your Unique Gift
You'll receive support and feedback to build and refine the unique vision of what you’re here to bring to the world.
Sharpening Your Sword of Leadership
You’ll put your leadership and facilitation skills into action while receiving feedback from mentors and peers to refine your craft.

"If you're thinking about being a part of Firekeeper - if levelling up and being around a group of men who can really support you in your growth as a man is important to you - it's a great program to be a part of and I'm so glad that I did it."


Firekeeper is led by the men's organization Thirteen Pines, seasoned facilitators with 30+ years of combined experience in men's work, masculine embodiment, rites of passage, shadow work, polarity and intimacy, somatic release, and more.

Got more questions? Send us an email [email protected]
No. You don't need specific leadership experience. The training is for men who want to become leaders or refine and sharpen their leadership.
There are no set requirements. Some men will have been to a retreat or two, others will have been involved in this work for years. This is why we have an application and interview process. Your intention and commitment matter more than your experience. If you feel called to lead men, you're encouraged to apply.
Roughly 3-5 hours per week. You'll have two-hour live calls every second week, weekly small group commitments, personal practice, and assignments.
Yes, the calls are an essential part of your training and attendance is required. Exceptions can be made in extreme circumstances and calls are recorded. However, we expect a high degree of commitment from Firekeepers.
Yes, the two in-person retreats are included. However, travel and accommodation are not. In the past, we've helped men with booking shared accommodation to keep costs down. We'll provide more guidance around this closer to the time.
Yes, the retreats are an important part of the Firekeeper experience. This is where the teaching and training really comes to life. You don't want to miss them. Exceptions may be made in extreme circumstances.
Four key points. 1. You get to train under three experienced, highly sought-after men's work facilitators and coaches, each with his own strengths and leadership styles. 2. You'll be trained in the art (energetics) and science (systems and principles) of embodied masculine leadership. Most trainings focus on one or the other. 3. You'll have several opportunities to step into leadership and assistant roles during the program, helping you to apply and embed the training in real time. 4. Firekeeper is more than a facilitator training, it's an initiation into embodied masculine leadership.
This is a signal of commitment and intention. It helps to ensure that only men who are serious about joining Firekeeper make it to the interview stage. The deposit will be refunded if you aren't accepted or choose not to join Firekeeper and will be put towards your tuition if you are accepted.
No, the application and interview process will ensure you're committed and a good fit for the Firekeeper program. If you do have to pull out for personal reasons or in exceptional circumstances, you can let us know and we'll treat it on a case-by-case basis.

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